Questions to ponder......
Ray and I had a very interesting conversation last night, which was sparked by the Montel Williams show on marital affairs that day. We tend to talk about very odd things, and for some, others may not feel comfortable talking about this to the other person but we seem to do (yes, we're weirdos) but we do draw lines when the comfort level is gone.
So, let's see how you answer these questions!
1. Would you rather have your significant other emotionally cheat on you or physically cheat on you?
2. Would you rather have your significant other cheat on you 5 times with the same person or 5 times with a different person every time?
3. Would you take back the person if they've cheated on you with the understanding that they'd be dumped if it happened again? (and this is the first offense)
and.....
4. Would you be more likely to take them back if it was just a one-night stand or something that lasted a little bit longer?
Hard questions to ponder, right? No one wants to be cheated on, but if bad luck befalls you and this happens, what would you do?
posted by dragonchica @ 1:06 PM
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3 Comments:
cheating sucks. but given that it happens. 1: i would rather someone cheat on me physically than emotionally. 2: at first i thought 5 times with different people... cuz that means they aren't totally attached to someone... but then i thought... shoot... if they've cheated with 5 different people... then they're just all sorts of horny and difficult to trust. so then i decided... as painful as it can be, 5 times with the same person is better. then you just have one bitch to slap. 3: would i take them back... depends on who i guess. if it was an okay relationship, no thanks. if it was someone i imagined marrying... maybe. 4: one night stand is definitely better than something longer. *sigh* and you trang? do we get to talk about this during the sleepover??
hmm, i think i may have had this conversation before! cheating sucks, but with the way things are nowadays, it's not uncommon (what the hell is wrong with society now>?!) anyways, to answer the question: 1- i'd rather a physical cheating than emotional, 2 - i'm going to have to say 5 times with different women as opposed to same women. at least with different women, you know it's more of a physical/horny thing not an emotional thing of the guy being with the same woman more than once. 3 - depends on the situation and on the relationship. if it's something meaningful, it's worth forgiving. the level of commitment/state of relationship is a factor too. would have to think carefully about it. and if i do take them back, they'd have a hell of a time making up for it! 4 - more likely if it was a one night stand, unless it was a continuous string of one nights ...
and how about you, trang? what answers did you guys come up with?
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