Stupid boys.....
An old friend emailed me because I sent him the links to my Europe pictures so I assume he was wanting to connect again, which we did a year ago and lost contact again. Anyways, in his email he says,
"btw, did you gain some weight since college???
I'm so mean!!!!
sorry,
Am I being weird and crazy or is that totally insensitive?!?!? I'm sorry, but you DON'T say that to ANY female! It doesn't matter how much self-confidence they may have, that kind of comment will cut like a knife! Ever since I read that email (last night) it has been on my mind. It's already bad enough that I feel self-conscious about my weight and my mom doesn't let me forget it, but now I have to hear this from a friend?!?!?!
ADVICE FOR MEN: NEVER COMMENT ON A WOMAN'S WEIGHT UNLESS IT'S TO SAY, "HAVE YOU LOST WEIGHT?" OR ANYTHING ALONG THOSE LINES!!!!
posted by dragonchica @ 4:51 PM
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2 Comments:
you should have said: "yes, and all in the right places, because my bf doesn't complain." "So how's your gf? Oh, that's right... you don't have one!" (assuming he doesn't have one...)
-Yunmi :)
Eh, he has a wife! So I emailed back and said, "Do you talk to your wife like that??? How in the world did you get a wife with a mouth like that!!"
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